Divine Union and Relationships
Well let me just say, what a rollercoaster this one has been. Relationships, uugghhh!
I don’t know about you but relationships have probably been the most challenging part of my souls journey and it still is not over. Whenever I think that I have figured it all out well BAM, the Universe shakes me up again.
My recent adventure has taken me down the ‘Divine Union’ paradigm. What is it? and Do I need this in my life.
After hours of doom scrolling on social media to fill the recent void in my life after another breakup, I heard opinions about how a relationship should look and how it should feel.
This is what a man should do for you, make you feel and if he does not Let Him Go! hmmmm I thought. It did not feel aligned for me at all.
Was this just another projection from a wounded person, or is there science behind this narrative. Personally and at this point in my life, I no longer know what I want or need from a love relationship. Years of thinking I know what I wanted only led to disapointment and heartache.
Finally realising that I was playing a wounded version of me, a version of me that sought love and validation outside of myself and how did I do that?
Quite simply by over giving, by people pleasing by going out of my way to do whatever I could to make him want me and think of me as worthy enough.
I had abandoned myself over and over again, this time it hit me like a brick. The A-HA moment came overnight and I woke up to my wounds and wok up to the illusion of relationships. I am still figuring this out but I current thoughts are this….
The only relationship that is of the highest importance should be the one I have with myself, where I learn to fully love and accept myself in every moment and to stop seeking validation externally.
The Divine Union I seek starts from me, where I stop abandoning my inner child and listen to what she needs from ME! I am only just starting on this journey as this new realisation has come to me after the ending of this relationship, and he was one of the good ones. I take responsibility for the part I played and now vow to focus on my self worth, my value and to feel whole and complete without anyone.
Will it be easy. OH MAN, I know it will not but I meet myself where I am raw and real, and I still choose me over anything else.
One thing I am sure of that I will not buy into another individuals projection of what a relationship should be and how it should make me feel, that is their projection. I create my own reality as a sovereign being and I will not hand over that power to anyone else, I choose how I show up my feeling into what is right for me. Which is why self awareness is so key right now, we are being bombarded with thought leaders with their opinions and ideas, even though we are passively listening this still has an impact on our belief system.
So what am I going to do…?
DISCERN and LISTEN to my inner voice because she knows best and always has.
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